The gender of communication: changing expectations of mothers and daughters in urban China

Evans, H. 2010. The gender of communication: changing expectations of mothers and daughters in urban China. China Quarterly. 204, pp. 980-999.

TitleThe gender of communication: changing expectations of mothers and daughters in urban China
AuthorsEvans, H.
Abstract

In the flow of the material, cultural and moral influences shaping contemporary Chinese society, individual desires for emotional communication are reconstituting the meaning of the subject, self and responsibility. This article draws on fieldwork conducted in Beijing between 2000 and 2004 to discuss the gendered dimensions of this process through an analysis of the implications of the “communicative intimacy” sought by mothers and daughters in their mutual relationship. What could be termed a “feminization of intimacy” is the effect of two distinct but linked processes: on the one hand, a market-supported naturalization of women's roles, and on the other, the changing subjective articulation of women's needs, desires and expectations of family and personal relationships. I argue that across these two processes, the celebration of a communicative intimacy does not signify the emergence of more equal family or gender relationships, as recent theories about the individualization and cultural democratization of daily life in Western societies have argued. As families and kin groups, communities and neighbourhoods are physically, spatially and socially broken up, and as gender differences in employment and income increase, media and “expert” encouragement to mothers to become the all-round confidantes, educators and moral guides of their children affirms women's responsibilities in the domestic sphere. Expectations of mother–daughter communication reshape the meaning – and experience – of the individual subject in the changing character of the urban family at the same time as they reinforce ideas about women's gendered attributes and the responsibilities associated with them.

JournalChina Quarterly
Journal citation204, pp. 980-999
ISSN0305-7410
YearDec 2010
PublisherCambridge University Press
Digital Object Identifier (DOI)doi:10.1017/S0305741010001050
Publication dates
PublishedDec 2010

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